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Paul Eckman
reported the relentless triggering of the emotions of
anger, or fear from a region of the brain called, the
limbic system. Intuition, an instant pattern recognition
process, was the culprit. Across the ages, sages
suggested stilling the mind as the path to peace. Buddha
recommended meditation, a process of knowing your mind.
This article suggests a simple process of directing
attention as an easier path.
THE ATTENTION SPANNER
Suddenly
angry. After a long and patient wait in queue,
you reached the post office counter. Just then, the
peasant sauntered over and plunked himself in front of
you. Your reaction was natural. Paul Ekman, the world
famous emotions scientist, dedicated his career to the
study of emotional reactions. "We become aware a
quarter, or half second after the emotion begins. I do
not choose .... to become angry. I am suddenly angry. I
can usually figure out later what someone did that caused
the emotion." The transit of that compelling emotion
was insidious. If only you could manage its impact!
An
automated process. You were but an actor in a
vast, automatic and intelligent process. Over a hundred
billion neurons saw, recognized, interpreted and acted.
Myriad processes converted light, sound, touch and smell
instantly into your nerve impulses. A special region
recognized those impulses as objects and events. The
limbic system, another region, interpreted those events
to generate emotions. A fourth region responded to those
emotions with actions. And, you watched it happen.
A
search for a fitting response. Normally, such
emotions triggered physical responses. For animals, it
was instant. If fear was generated, a deer bounded away.
A bird took flight. A fish swam off. Even though it
happened in the blink of an eye, these were profoundly
considered actions. Escape was hardly possible by heading
into the predator. Multiple escape routes were instantly
evaluated and a single decision made. Intelligent search
processes delivered responses to emotions within a
reported 20 milliseconds. Animals responded instantly.
Unfortunately, most social situations precluded such
instant action. The guy pushing ahead was bigger. The
neighborhood was shady. Immediate action was hardly an
option. Still... So, the search for a fitting response
did not end in half a second. It continued.
Parallel
searches. So, outside your ken, each negative
emotion set up a search. Fear triggered a search to
escape. Jealousy, to improve one's competitive position.
Anger, to destroy. Everywhere, society precluded animal
responses, setting obstacles to those searches. As the
day wore on, new emotions added new searches. So, many
parallel searches went on and on, like birds flailing in
a cage, searching the bars for an absent exit. Each
emotion returned with renewed vigor with each failed
search. A restless mind leaped from fear to anxiety and
from disgust to anger. Acting below conscious levels,
these searches created unhappy turbulences.
Paths
to peace. Most people remained unaware of their
inner searches, thrashing against vexing obstacles. They
believed the ensuing emotions to be normal. For them,
anger, or dismay were natural responses to situations.
But, this was not true. Emotions were a needless burden.
For centuries, sages had proclaimed their freedom from
cruel emotions. Their victories were recorded across
civilizations. They had enjoyed a tranquil mind, not
dominated by anger, pain, envy, or hatred. They had
proclaimed their success. But, sadly, their paths to
peace were arduous and often far too idealistic.
Acceptance.
A common thread to their journey to bliss was an
abandonment of a desire for material comforts. With few
needs, most emotions drifted away. But, for most of us,
this was hardly acceptable. After all, life was all about
living. About enjoying good things. Purely spiritual
living was hardly a charming option. On another route,
most psychologists suggested acceptance. They recommended
an acceptance of life and its cruel foibles. For example,
one could play out the worse case scenario. What was the
worse that could happen? Could you live with that?
Morbid
thoughts. Could you wait a few more minutes to
reach the counter? Invariably, acceptance stilled the
search process. An untenable situation was emotionally
accepted. Acceptance brought a measure of peace. But,
more often than not, visualizing the worst case led to
morbid thoughts. They added new, needless turmoil. After
all, most feared things never happened anyway. Why drag
them into consciousness, setting off new search processes
and new anxieties? Could there be an easier route to
harmony?
Your
only weapon. Peace could follow from a grasp of
our role in this relentless cycle - perception,
recognition, interpretation and action. Consciousness had
a small role in those immense systems. You were alone in
this vast programmed power plant with just a little
joystick. That joystick controlled attention. All the
rest was mechanical. Attention could focus your mind
anywhere. Feel the pinch of a shoe, the caress of of a
breeze, or a word on this page. While the system could
snatch it away, attention remained your sole weapon. You
could pitch attention in, like a spanner into a machine,
to stall its relentless pace.
Inward
focus. Directed attention stilled most
activities. Like a child diverted. Just as a parent
diverted a child, diverted attention stalled the system.
It inhibited the turmoil of emotions. This was a noble
purpose. And, you could begin anytime. Spend a few of
your free moments to ponder What am I thinking
now? Pay attention. The followers of Buddha focused
their attention inwards in their practice of meditation.
They became aware of their thoughts. Of voices that
spoke, of felt pain and anger.
Identify
familiar friends. Over time, your thoughts would
become as familiar as friends. Memories of packed lunches
and train stations. But recalled memories were not the
key. You needed to catalog those odious search processes.
Oh, oh, there I go on that track again!
Searches were managed by emotions. There was a valuable
clue to locating those emotions. Scientists reported that
emotional regions were closely mapped to regions which
triggered physical sensations. So, each emotion and its
search process had associated physical symptoms. Once
those symptoms were identified, the search process became
familiar. Identification instantly stilled it It stopped
battering against the cage. That gave you an exhilarating
Aha experience.
The
shortcut to peace. Here was a noble voyage into
the incredible spaces of your mind. As time passed, more
and more negative emotions became subdued. A deeper
creative balance took over. Without the limitations of
partisan emotions, answers came more easily. It did not
matter a twit, whether you lost your position in the
queue. Free of emotions, you could even deal with the
peasant. You could achieve all this without lofty
actions. Without abandoning material comforts. Without
accepting worst case scenarios. The attention
spanner could bring you peace.
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